Sunday

Beyond the Stigma: Why Men’s Health Month Must Include Fibromyalgia

November is globally recognized as Men’s Health Month (often linked with Movember), focusing primarily on raising awareness for men’s physical and mental health issues. 

Beyond the Stigma of fibromyalgia and men

While campaigns often highlight prevention and screening for conditions like prostate cancer and testicular cancer, this month is also a critical time to address the systemic barriers that delay or prevent men from receiving a diagnosis for invisible chronic illnesses like Fibromyalgia.

For our community, this month is about challenging the stereotype that chronic pain is a "woman's disease."

The Challenge: Fighting Invisible Illnesses with an Invisible Shield

The classic narrative of the "strong, silent man" often forces men with fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue to downplay their symptoms. This societal pressure leads to a significant problem:

  • Diagnostic Delay: Studies suggest that while Fibromyalgia affects far more women, men who do have it often face a much longer journey to diagnosis, as their symptoms may be dismissed or attributed to other causes.

  • Stigma and Isolation: When pain is invisible, and cultural norms dictate that men shouldn't "complain," the result is isolation. Men may withdraw from support groups or feel their experiences are not validated within the predominantly female chronic illness community.

This November, our goal is to amplify the voices of men who are living with this condition authentically.

FBD’s Focus: Amplifying Male Perspectives

We are making a concentrated effort to share men’s stories and experiences this month.

Men's Health Month

Social Media Campaign

The awareness color for men's health is light Blue. Our Fibromyalgia Awareness Facebook page and our X/Twitter feed will be geared towards sharing content, interviews, and posts from male bloggers in the community. We'll be using blue colors to align with this effort. If you have an old post where you interviewed a man with fibromyalgia, or if you are a male blogger yourself, please ensure it is visible!

Use these hashtags when sharing: #MensHealthMonth, #FibroMen, #ChronicPainInMen.

Men and Fibromyalgia Real Stories. Real Support.

Our Male Voices

The reality of our community is that we only have a handful of male members. We deeply value the three men currently in our directory. While their posts often focus on general, valuable fibromyalgia advice rather than the male perspective specifically, their very presence helps break down barriers. You can find their incredible work, alongside many others, in our Directory.

We also want to honor the work of one of our earliest male bloggers, Thom Byxbe, who sadly passed away last year. His general posts remain a testament to the strength and resilience needed to live with this condition, and his work continues to serve as a valuable resource for everyone. Thom Byxbe’s Research Desk. 

A Call to Action for Bloggers

Your participation helps drive this campaign!

1. Write a New Post for "Freshness"

We're currently compiling the "Fibro Blogger Directory’s Best Voices of 2025" list for December. To qualify, one of the criteria is Freshness (4 or more posts published in 2024–2025) and a focus on Authenticity (first-hand fibro experiences).

If you’ve only published three posts this year, publishing just one more in November will qualify you for this amazing recognition!

2. Promote Your Existing Content

If you have a post that focuses on the male experience, or even a general post that could be shared with a male audience (e.g., exercise tips, symptom management), please link it up to Fibro Friday this month so we can easily share it.

By working together, we can ensure that Men’s Health Month becomes a time of genuine inclusion and support for every member of the chronic illness community.

Men’s Health Month Must Include Fibromyalgia

Saturday

Fibro Friday for November

Fibro Friday is a weekly link-up dedicated to amplifying the voices of people living with fibromyalgia. It’s a welcoming space where bloggers share personal stories, practical tips, and reflections to raise awareness, foster connection, and support one another in the chronic illness community.

By joining Fibro Friday, you're helping build a compassionate, informed community—one post at a time. 

Whether you're a seasoned advocate or just starting to write about your journey, we’d love to have you join us this week. Your perspective could be the one that helps someone feel seen, understood, or inspired.

Fibro link up for November

How to participate:

  • Share your latest blog post about fibromyalgia using the link-up tool below

  • Visit and support other bloggers by reading, commenting, or sharing their posts

  • Use the social media buttons to help spread the word—every share helps amplify awareness and connection

    Fibromyalgia link up for November

How AI Is Reshaping Blogging—and What You Can Do to Stay Visible

 AI search is reshaping how people find and interact with content online—and it's already having a noticeable impact on blogs and websites. 

How AI Is Reshaping Blogging—and What You Can Do to Stay Visible
Searching online is now changing due to AI

Here's what’s happening and what types of sites are likely to thrive:

What’s Happening to Blogs and Websites

  • Declining traffic from traditional search: AI tools like ChatGPT, Google’s AI Overviews, and Perplexity are answering questions directly, reducing the need to click through to websites. Even top-ranking pages are pushed far down in the results. Many AI users are happy with the AI results and do not click through to the blogs.

  • Zero-click searches: Users get answers instantly, so they don’t visit the source site. This is especially hurting informational sites like Wikipedia, which has seen an 8% drop in page views.

  • Content scraping by AI bots: AI models crawl and summarize content from blogs and websites, often without driving traffic back to the original source.

  • SEO disruption: Traditional SEO strategies are being challenged. Ranking #1 on Google doesn’t guarantee visibility anymore due to AI summaries dominating the top of the page.

What Blogs and Sites Will Remain Popular

  • Sites with unique, personal, or experiential content: Personal stories, niche expertise, and lived experiences (like chronic illness blogs) are harder for AI to replicate.

  • Communities and forums: Platforms like Reddit, Quora, and niche Facebook groups offer dynamic, real-time human interaction.

  • Sites with strong brand loyalty: Think Health Rising, NerdWallet, or A Chronic Voice—people return for their voice, trust, and depth.

  • Multimedia-rich platforms: Blogs that incorporate video, podcasts, or interactive tools are more engaging and less likely to be replaced by AI summaries.

  • E-commerce and service-based sites: Where users need to take action—buy, book, subscribe—AI can’t replace the transaction.

How Bloggers Can Adapt

How Bloggers Can Adapt to AI

  • Focus on authenticity and storytelling.

  • Build email lists and direct relationships with readers.

  • Diversify into video, audio, and social media.

  • Use AI tools to enhance productivity, not compete with them.

If you’re blogging about chronic illness or personal experiences, you’re in a strong position—your voice and perspective are irreplaceable

Step-by-Step Strategy for AI-Era Blogging

1. Strengthen Your Unique Voice

AI can summarize facts, but it can’t replicate your lived experience. Lean into:

  • Personal stories about chronic illness

  • Emotional reflections and insights

  • Your tone, humor, and personality

Tip: Start posts with a compelling anecdote or question that only you could write.

2. Structure for AI Visibility

AI tools often pull content from well-structured pages. Make yours easy to scan:

  • Use clear headings (H2, H3) for each section

  • Include bullet points and numbered lists

  • Add a short summary or takeaway at the end

Tip: Use schema markup (like FAQ or HowTo) to help AI understand your content better. (More about that in another post soon.)

3. Create Evergreen & Searchable Content

Focus on topics that people will always search for:

  • “How to explain chronic pain to family”

  • “Tips for managing fibro flare-ups”

  • “Best tools for tracking symptoms”

Tip: Use keyword tools like Ubersuggest or Google’s Keyword Planner to find phrases people search for.

4. Build Direct Relationships

AI search might skip your site—but email and social media won’t.

  • Grow your email list with free resources or prompts

  • Share blog posts on Pinterest, Instagram, or Facebook groups

  • Encourage comments and community

Tip: Add a call-to-action at the end of each post: “Share your story in the comments” or “Join my newsletter for more prompts.”

Content Types for bloggers

5. Diversify Your Content Types

AI can’t summarize a podcast or video as easily as text. So you could:

  • Record short audio reflections or interviews

  • Create shareable visual quote cards or infographics

  • Embed YouTube videos or reels in your blog

Tip: Repurpose blog posts into multiple formats to reach different audiences.

Bonus: You can embed audio on your blog or distribute it as a podcast or host it on your own YouTube channel.

I hope this post has helped you feel more prepared for the shifts AI is bringing to blogging. While the landscape is changing fast, your voice, your story, and your connection with readers still matter more than ever. By adapting your strategy and staying true to your message, you can continue to thrive—even in an AI-driven world. Keep creating, keep sharing, and keep showing up. Your blog is still a powerful space.

How AI Ischanging Blogging—and What You Can Do to Stay Visible


Tuesday

Fibromyalgia and Mental Health : Understanding the Hidden Struggle

As October is Mental Health Awareness Month we want to share about mental health and how it relates to fibromyalgia. There are many links to articles written by people who have first hand knowledge of these struggles. 

Fibromyalgia and Mental Health

Fibromyalgia and Mental Health

Fibromyalgia is more than chronic pain—it's a complex condition that affects every aspect of life, including mental health. While widespread muscle pain and fatigue are its hallmark symptoms, many people with fibromyalgia also experience emotional challenges like depression, anxiety, and cognitive fog. Understanding this connection is key to managing the condition holistically.

The Link Between Fibromyalgia and Mental Health

Fibromyalgia disrupts the way the brain processes pain signals, often leading to heightened sensitivity and persistent discomfort. But this neurological imbalance doesn’t stop at physical pain—it also affects mood regulation, sleep cycles, and stress response.

  • Depression and anxiety are common co-occurring conditions.

  • Brain fog, or “fibro fog,” can impair memory and concentration.

  • Sleep disturbances worsen both physical and emotional symptoms.

These overlapping issues create a feedback loop: pain increases stress, which worsens mental health, which in turn amplifies pain.

Emotional Symptoms to Watch For

Recognizing the emotional impact of fibromyalgia is crucial. Here are some signs that mental health may be affected:

  • Persistent sadness or hopelessness

  • Loss of interest in activities

  • Irritability or mood swings

  • Difficulty concentrating or making decisions

  • Feelings of guilt or worthlessness

  • Panic attacks or chronic worry

These symptoms may be subtle at first but can intensify over time if left unaddressed.

Coping Strategies That Help

Managing mental health alongside fibromyalgia requires a multi-pronged approach. Here are proven strategies:

1. Therapy and Counseling

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) helps reframe negative thought patterns.

  • Support groups offer validation and shared experiences.

2. Lifestyle Adjustments

  • Exercise: Gentle movement like yoga or walking can boost endorphins.

  • Sleep hygiene: Consistent routines and limiting screen time improve rest.

  • Nutrition: Anti-inflammatory diets may reduce symptom severity.

3. Mindfulness and Stress Reduction

  • Meditation and breathing exercises calm the nervous system.

  • Journaling can help process emotions and track symptom patterns.

When to Seek Professional Help

If emotional symptoms persist or interfere with daily life, it’s time to talk to a healthcare provider. Mental health support is not a luxury—it’s a necessity for managing fibromyalgia effectively.

  • Ask your doctor about integrated care options.

  • Consider working with a psychologist familiar with chronic pain.

  • Don’t wait for a crisis—early intervention leads to better outcomes.

Articles by people with Fibromyalgia. 
Living with fibromyalgia is a daily challenge, but you don’t have to face it alone. By acknowledging the mental health impact and seeking support, you can reclaim control and improve your quality of life. Here are some articles that might help:

Resources for Support

  • National Fibromyalgia Association – Offers educational materials and community forums.

  • Mental Health Australia – Provides access to therapists and crisis support.

  • Beyond Blue – A trusted source for depression and anxiety resources.

Fibromyalgia and Mental Health